We Prevented the Distress. We Also Prevented the Practice.

Four figures wait on the grass across the street from a school while an alarm sounds and the rest of the students file out the front doors. An adult stands behind a child using a wheelchair. Two other children sit on the ground, one wearing headphones.

Most schools hold a fire drill during the first month of the year. Administrators plan it. They know the date and the time. In theory, nobody else does, because part of the point is to practice what to do when an alarm is unexpected. That is often not how it goes. The administration wants the … Read more

Catching Change: Why We Notice and Mark Change

Illustrated classroom scene with children seated on carpet squares, a beanbag, and a laundry basket while an adult holds a rain stick beside a “Catch a Change” tally board. One child is holding a card with a change icon on it and another is signing change

When we talk about supporting autistic learners with change, we often focus on preparing them for what will happen next. Catching change starts somewhere slightly different. Years ago, I developed and ran a summer day camp for autistic campers, along with their siblings and friends. At the time, I did not have a word for … Read more

The Other Nervous System in the Room

Two figures sitting in a waiting room - a child and an adult - both have tension radiating from their bodies in waves

Appointment Support for Autistic Learners Begins with the Adults, Too You know the feeling. The appointment is days away, and something in you is already bracing. You run through the variables: how the waiting room might smell, whether the provider will be running late, what you will do if the learner you are accompanying cannot … Read more

When the World Feels Different: Supporting Autistic Learners in New Environments

Two figures looking out an open door with a group of people talking on the other side in an outdoor setting

New environments are part of everyday life. A visit to a relative’s house. A community event. A new playground. A family trip. A different store. Even a place we’ve never been before can bring new sights, sounds, smells, and routines. For many autistic learners, navigating a new environment is significantly more than a change of … Read more