The Other Nervous System in the Room

Two figures sitting in a waiting room - a child and an adult - both have tension radiating from their bodies in waves

Appointment Support for Autistic Learners Begins with the Adults, Too You know the feeling. The appointment is days away, and something in you is already bracing. You run through the variables: how the waiting room might smell, whether the provider will be running late, what you will do if the learner you are accompanying cannot … Read more

The Quietest Anxiety in the Room

A young child sits quietly on a sunlit window seat, knees drawn up, gazing out the window — calm on the outside, holding something inside.

What we miss when we mistake stillness for calm — and what neurodivergent learners need instead Some of the most anxious learners in our classrooms, therapy rooms, and homes don’t look anxious at all. They look composed. Quiet. Maybe even “good.” They turn in the worksheet. They nod when the teacher checks in. They sit … Read more